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Spring Break in the Mountains

All about our 2024 Spring Break in Colorado!

Overall, March has been a good month for us, but I’ll go ahead and get the bad news out of the way first. Jessica’s Grandma Sherry passed away at the beginning of the month, which is about 9 months after the passing of her husband Larry. The two of them were married for 67 years and the family always said once one of them goes, the other won’t be far behind. This turned out to be true.

Obviously, it was very sad news to receive, and the timing was especially difficult because Jessica had already made plans to visit her in Iowa. She knew the time was coming and wanted to get one more special visit in, but unfortunately, Sherry couldn’t hang on long enough. Jessica decided to keep her Iowa plans and will be flying there this Friday. She’s looking forward to spending time with her Dad, as well as driving over to Illinois to spend some time with her friend Laurel. From my perspective, I will always have fond memories of Larry and Sherry spending Christmas 2010 with us in San Diego. It was our first year of marriage, as well as our first Christmas in San Diego, and having them spend a week with us in our tiny beach shack was something I’ll never forget. My condolences go out to Amy and family; she was a great woman and always played a special role in Jessica’s life.

Now that the sad news is out of the way, we’ve got a lot of good things to get into. At the beginning of March, the kids and I attended the NASCAR race at the Las Vegas Motor Speedway. None of us had ever attended anything like this but we had a great time. I never used to be a big NASCAR fan but after seeing it in person I feel like I totally get it. It’s hard to describe the sensation of seeing those cars go thundering by at 160 mph! The sights and sounds are very exciting, and since then I have watched every race on TV. There’s another Las Vegas race in late October and we have already made plans to attend it with Grandma and Grandpa Martin, who will be driving down from Colorado at that time.

Our Colorado Roadtrip

Speaking of Colorado, we had an excellent Spring Break vacation there and are already planning another visit in June. We drove up on a Friday, and without meaning to, ended up stopping at all of the exact same places we stopped at during our first Colorado road trip for Christmas 2022. It was unbelievable and totally unplanned.

We stopped at the same little gas station in Joseph, Utah with the cleanest bathrooms and an excellent candy selection. Then we stopped at the same rest stop with a scenic view in Central Utah. We even had lunch at Starvin Arvins again, which is a little diner in Fruita, Colorado. The first two-thirds of the drive was perfect and gorgeous. It was a beautiful sunny day and I can never get over how beautiful the scenery in Utah is.

Shortly after lunch, as we were just beginning to ascend the Rocky Mountains from the west side, we started seeing signs saying I-70 was closed at Vail Pass. It sounded like there was a snowstorm up there but we later learned that a pair of semi trucks had jackknifed, causing a massive slowdown on the interstate. Jessica immediately started researching alternate routes and then got on the phone with Grandpa Tom to get his advice.

We ended up getting off I-70 and took a little two-lane highway for the remainder of the trip. Around 90 minutes before sunset we started noticing a lot of deer out and about. They were eating plants and we ended up seeing hundreds of them. It was an awesome sight to see, but my biggest concern was that one would come onto the highway. A while later we came around a bend and about 150 yards ahead I could see a deer on the highway. It wasn’t in my lane, but this was a two-lane road so I started slowing down.

Beyond the deer, I could see a blue Subaru sedan approaching and it seemed like it had plenty of time to slow down but it didn’t work out that way. They slammed on their brakes but it was too late. Right as we were approaching they hit the deer and all I can say is that it was an awful thing to see. I have never seen something like this before and also never witnessed so much carnage. It all happened so fast but I could see there were two adults in the car and that they were able to safely pull over on the side of the road.

For a second I thought maybe I should stop but there were multiple factors that caused me to keep going. First, I had no idea where we were so I didn’t think I could be of much help. I knew there were two adults in the car so it wasn’t like someone was dealing with this alone, and their car wasn’t totaled so they were in control after the collision. I also didn’t want to expose my children to that type of carnage, plus we had already been on the road for 11 hours at that point. We were getting tired and I felt like my number 1 priority was to get them safely to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. I felt bad about not stopping but based on all those factors it seemed clear to me that I needed to stay the course. It was hard though, and I can still vividly remember exactly what that collision looked like.

We arrived safely at Amy and Tom’s house about an hour later but it was a little strange because they weren’t there. As soon as they knew Sherry was close to passing they had to get back to Iowa as quickly as possible. This was a Friday and Sherry’s service was scheduled for that Monday. Their plan was to fly home on Monday evening after the service, so we knew we would see them on the back half of our trip, but for this first night, it was just us in their beautiful mountain home.

On Saturday morning we let the kids play in the snow for a bit, then we made the drive down the mountain and into Denver. Although I have been to Colorado several times, those trips have always been up in the mountains, so my only Denver experience before this was related to the airport. We arrived in Denver before our hotel was ready for us to check in, so we ended up hanging out in this really cool little neighborhood on Tennyson St. Our lunch at Vital Root was excellent, and then we enjoyed walking around for a bit.

The hotel was nice because it was right in the heart of Denver and we had a corner suite on the 12th floor. There were two bedrooms so we gave the kids the room with all the windows. It was so cool seeing them lying in bed with an expansive view of Downtown Denver.

That night the five of us walked to the Summit Music Hall for the Moon Taxi concert. We arrived right when the doors opened, which was an hour before the opening band was scheduled to go on, and immediately made our way to the front of the stage. Enzo and Elise were right on the rail at the very front, while Ava, Jessica, and I were directly behind them. We held our ground and kept that spot for the entire show, even when it started getting crowded. Small venues like this are the absolute best way to see a concert and the kids had never experienced anything like it, so we had a lot of fun.

Moon Taxi played all of our favorite songs and also did some unexpected covers. At one point the drummer had to replace the head on his bass drum so the singer started playing “What’s Up” by 4 Non Blondes. Immediately the whole crowd joined in and we all sang together. It was such a fun show that we will never forget, but my favorite part was when the singer reached down to Enzo near the end of the show to give him his guitar pick and a fist bump. It was amazing. Enzo was afraid he would lose it so he gave it to me to hold onto. Every few hours for the next two days he would say “Dad, do you still have my guitar pick?”

The walk back to our hotel was a little chilly but we stopped at a pizza food truck for a few slices, and then made our way back to the room to talk about our favorite parts of the show.

On Sunday, we had a free day to explore Denver. We lucked out with beautiful sunny weather in the mid-60s and bounced around to a few places. We visited a little art walk, then took the kids to play at a park. You could tell the locals were loving the weather because everyone was out walking a dog in shorts and t-shirts.

Denver is a really cool city with an interesting mix of old west history and modern eclectics. They have a great food scene and it seems like everyone has a dog. For our Sunday afternoon, Elise and Jessica went to Meow Wolf while Ava, Enzo, and I decided to take advantage of the nice weather by playing 36 holes of mini golf at an outdoor course.

That evening we enjoyed some of the best pizza of our lives at Red Tops Rendezvous. It’s Detroit-style pizza and was easily the best deep-dish pizza we have ever had. We have already decided that any time we return to Denver we will have to eat there again.

On Monday morning we drove back up to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. The kids spent the day playing in the snow, and then later that night Amy and Tom arrived from Iowa. We then spent the entire day on Tuesday outside in the snow. The kids did a bunch of sledding and built two snowmen, plus we got to ride four-wheelers. It was a perfect way to end the trip and we’re looking forward to getting back up there in June.

We drove home on Wednesday and ran into every type of weather imaginable. A big storm was coming in and we’re lucky we left when we did because parts of Colorado got up to 3 feet of snow! It was their biggest storm in 3 years and we barely made it out in time. We made our way through the beginnings of the snowstorm as we were heading down the mountain on Wednesday morning, which then turned into a heavy rainstorm once we got to a lower elevation.

Shortly after making it into Utah, we found ourselves in a big hailstorm, then as the day progressed there were two strong windstorms. Despite all this crazy weather we still made it home in 10.5 hours, which was record time. We opted not to stop for lunch and just eat in the car, which saved time but still managed to once again stop in all of the exact same places for gas and bathrooms as we did on the previous trip. It was unbelievable.

Since getting home from Colorado things have been great. Ava is busy with softball and I’ve been an assistant on the team, while Elise has been doing choir, running club, and acting classes. She is also interested in playing softball and is currently planning on joining a team for the Fall season. I’m going to work with her between now and then to get as prepared as possible. We’re still looking for some new activities for Enzo to engage in so hopefully that happens sometime soon.

This week Jessica and I will celebrate our 14th anniversary, although we’re holding off on the actual celebration until she returns from Iowa. She leaves this Friday and comes back on Monday, so my Mom will be coming to the house to hang out with us for the weekend. Another exciting thing for Jessica is the fact that she was nominated for Support Professional of the Year for the Clark County School District! I’m so proud of her and it goes to show that she found the perfect thing after moving down here. We will be attending the awards ceremony in April, and regardless of how it turns out, she has a lot to be proud of.

Easter Morning

Today is Easter so we did our annual egg hunt. Normally we would do it in our backyard but it was rainy yesterday so we decided to do it indoors this year. Jessica did a little homage to her Grandma this year by including a scavenger hunt for the kids. Sherry used to do this for the grandkids back in the day and our kids loved it! The rest of our day will be pretty chill but Jessica and the kids had Friday off school, and they have tomorrow off as well, so it’s a nice 4 day weekend for them. Here are a few photos from this morning.

Upcoming Plans

As I have already mentioned, we will be going back up to Colorado to stay with Grandma and Grandpa in June. We’re still figuring out the dates but I’m excited because it’s a nice getaway for us and we can drive there in a day. All of my Colorado trips have been during the winter so I’m excited to see it during the nicer weather.

Our other big plan for this summer is that we will be spending a weekend in Phoenix for Elise’s birthday. Once again, we’re traveling to see one of our favorite bands perform. We love a band called AJR and had a great time seeing them in Vegas at SEMA Fest, which was a big part of Ava’s 12th birthday last November. We were looking at AJR’s tour schedule and saw they were playing a show in Phoenix two days before Elise’s birthday this July, so we decided to go. It’s only about 4.5 hours to drive down there and we’ve never spent time there, so it should be a lot of fun.

That’s about it for now. Here’s a little video collage I made from our Spring Break trip to Colorado.

Back to School – 22/23 Style

An update on the end of our Summer break, including a road trip to Los Angeles, plus our first week of the new school year.

Tomorrow the kids and Jessica will already be beginning their second week of the 2022 / 2023 school year. It still feels too early to me for school to be starting, but that’s how they do it here, so we just have to adjust. They did a full 5-day week last week to kick off the new year, which I think is a bit much for the first week, but they were troopers and got things off to a great start! Not surprisingly, each of them is already making new friends at school, and overall they are loving it.

Ava is in Jessica’s class and, as a 5th grader, has instantly taken on a leadership role. She was selected to represent the class in the student council, and she has already made remarks to Jessica about her increased sense of self-confidence since starting there. Obviously, we couldn’t be happier about this and just hope the positive momentum continues. This is going to be a very important year for Ava because it’s her last year of elementary school. Jessica is doing everything she can to prepare her for middle school, and having Ava in her class each day is the best way to do that.

Ava Pellegrini on her first day of 5th grade — Ava’s first day of 5th grade

Elise is off to a great start in 4th grade, although she’s so hard on herself with the way she compares herself to her peers that she would tell you she’s behind. I can heavily relate to that type of sentiment and feeling; I just hope she uses it as fuel and motivation. Jessica basically hand selected each of the kids’ teachers this year and has already spoken to Elise’s new teacher to see how the first week went. Not surprisingly, Elise did great in her first week and doesn’t appear behind in anything. Her teacher seems awesome, and Elise loved her instantly, so things look really good for Elise this year.

Elise Pellegrini on her first day of 4th grade — Elise on her first day of 4th grade

Enzo is off to a great start in second grade. Like Elise, he tends to be hard on himself when comparing himself to his peers. I think the annual change in schools has a lot to do with that for both of them, but again, he’s doing totally fine in school and just needs to get more comfortable in his new surroundings. He’s actually doing excellent in math, so we’re very encouraging of him to keep pushing in that area. There’s a little boy sitting next to him that he quickly built a friendship with, plus he and Elise both get to see Mom and Ava at different points each day (recess, lunch, special classes).

Enzo Pellegrini on his first day of 2nd grade — Enzo on his first day of 2nd grade

I think they were all exhausted after the first week, but the first week is always the hardest. Each week will get easier and more routine from here on out. It’s been strange having the house so quiet all day long again, but considering that I’m working, that part is kinda nice. One thing I love about working from home is that my kids get to have the same vision of me working at home that I had of my own Dad. Obviously, our jobs are a bit different, but that part doesn’t matter. What matters is that you’re there to say goodbye when they leave in the morning, and you’re there to greet them when they return in the afternoon. I don’t take that for granted at all either, because it wasn’t that long ago that I was commuting an hour plus each way and then feeling bad when the kids tell me I’m barely around. Knowing that working from home is a permanent thing for me gives me a lot of peace of mind in that sense.

Wrapping up Summer break

Jessica and I wanted to make one more fun little trip to finish off our Summer break, so we planned a visit to Los Angeles for 2 nights. It actually almost didn’t happen, so let me expand on that part first. The plan was to leave at 6:00 am on Sunday, July 31st, and drive straight to Santa Monica so we could have a day at the beach. The day before that was my birthday, and since it fell on a Saturday, we decided to have a little pool + pizza party at the house with our friends.

I haven’t had a birthday party in many years, but it made sense this year, so Tiko brought both of his daughters over, plus Devin and Bridgette came. We swam for a couple of hours, then took a break to eat pizza. After finishing our pizza, people were slowly migrating back toward the pool. Most of us were just sitting around with our legs in the water, but Enzo was getting up on the ledge above the pool, jumping in, then climbing out and repeating. This is nothing new – all 3 of the kids do this regularly, but as he was running around the back side of the pool to get back up on the ledge, he tripped on the pole holding up the basketball hoop and slammed his forehead into the concrete ledge above the pool.

I didn’t even see it happen, but I heard him scream, so I ran over to him. By the time I reached him, there was a big gash on his forehead, and his entire face was covered in blood. He was screaming, and it felt like we were living in the scene of a horror movie. I picked him up and started running back to where everyone was. I think I yelled out something about having a serious problem, and I remember all the girls (ours plus Tiko’s) were in the pool; when they saw Enzo’s bloody face, they all started screaming in terror.

Luckily all of the adults jumped into action. Bridgette immediately got a towel on Enzo’s face and started cleaning him up, while Devin and Tiko took care of the girls so they wouldn’t see anymore. Jessica ran in to get her keys, and within a minute, we were on our way to the emergency room.

I didn’t even get to say goodbye to my friends, but I can’t tell them how much I appreciate them stepping up. They stayed at home with Ava and Elise while Jessica and I went to the ER with Enzo. Unfortunately, things were pretty busy that night at the ER, which is probably common for a Saturday night. Even though I had a child with a head wound in my arms, it still took nearly 30 minutes for us to get checked him checked in. I have to give Enzo a ton of credit because he did remarkably well staying calm. I guess to a certain extent, he’s used to this, having been through multiple similar situations, but he still deserves credit. It was a nasty deep gash on his forehead, but he was such a little trooper.

After getting Enzo into a hospital bed and figuring out the plan with the doctor, I sent Jessica home. I didn’t want our friends to have to stay there all night, and a lot needed to be picked up at the house. It was a very slow process, but he ended up getting 6 stitches in his forehead. I thought our trip would have to be canceled at this point, but I asked the doctor about it and received permission to go. We just had to keep the stitches dry, so no swimming or showering for a few days. I was a little bit surprised they gave him permission to go on rollercoasters at Six Flags, but they did, so the trip was back on! This wasn’t exactly how I envisioned the night playing out, but there’s no question we will always remember my 42nd birthday.

Enzo and Michael Pellegrini waiting in the emergency room — Waiting for stitches at the ER

Enzo Pellegrini forehead stitches 2022-07-30 — Six stitches! He’s a tough little guy.

A quick trip to Los Angeles

We got off to an early start as planned, and even with stopping for gas and food, we still arrived at Santa Monica beach by 11:00 am. We still have our beach tent from the San Diego days, so we found a good spot to set that up and then just hung out for a few hours. Enzo could only get his feet wet, and Elise isn’t that into cold ocean water, so they mostly played on the beach, building sand castles.

Ava, on the other hand, is a California girl at heart. She loves getting out there in the water, and I love watching her. It reminds me of my childhood, out there thrashing around in the Pacific ocean waves. The water is cold, and we’re especially spoiled now that we’re used to swimming in our heated pool, but she doesn’t care. She jumps into and over those waves with so much energy; I just love it.

Ava Pellegrini playing at the beach in Santa Monica, CA — Ava playing at the beach in Santa Monica

Elise Pellegrini playing at the beach in Santa Monica, CA — Elise was quite the little builder at the beach

Enzo Pellegrini playing at the beach in Santa Monica, CA — Enzo had fun in Santa Monica

Jessica Pellegrini at the beach in Santa Monica, CA — Jessica always loves a beach day

After a few hours down on the beach, we took the kids up to the Santa Monica pier to walk around. There were all kinds of little shops, people fishing everywhere, there were acrobats and even a magician! It was a trip walking around there, but they loved it.

Pellegrini Kids at the Santa Monica Pier

Pellegrini family selfie on the Santa Monica pier — Family selfie near the end of the pier

After leaving the pier, we walked along the boardwalk towards Muscle Beach and Venice Beach. A bunch of people were working on different types of tightropes and practicing balancing acts. It was fun to watch, and there was a playground for kids, so we posted up there for a bit just to take it all in. There was a fruit stand on the boardwalk, so we got a big bowl of fresh fruit and sat there eating all these delicious fruits (mango, pineapple, watermelon) while we watched all the interesting things going on around us. It was a really fun afternoon. When you combine this with their experiences in San Diego during Spring Break, I think it’s safe to say that the kids get the whole California beach thing by now. I actually made a video about our day at the beach for the Pellegrini Kids YouTube channel – you can check it out below.

Pellegrini family selfie on the Santa Monica boardwalk

From the Pellegrini Kids YouTube channel

A scenic tour of Los Angeles

We took the long way getting to our hotel, which was up in Santa Clarita near Six Flags. I wanted to show the kids a bit of Los Angeles, so we ended up cruising through the UCLA campus, Bel Air, Beverly Hills, and all the way down the Sunset strip. They’re used to Vegas glitz and glamour, but Los Angeles has a different vibe to it, and they were eating it up. As a kid, I always had a strange love for Los Angeles, so it was cool taking them on this little sightseeing tour.

Six Flags Magic Mountain

Monday, we spent basically the entire day at Six Flags Magic Mountain. Enzo isn’t tall enough for some of the rollercoasters (the 54” ones), but he could do everything else, so that’s what we did. Honestly, plenty of the rollercoasters he was big enough to do were still able to scare me to death. I think we were all pretty frazzled after going on X2. Except Elise, of course, because she was the only one smart enough not to go. Poor Ava started crying when it was over. Enzo and I were looking at each other all wild-eyed, like what just happened? Here’s a POV video somebody made on it a long time ago.

This was probably the scariest rollercoaster I’ve been on

By the time we left Six Flags that evening, everyone was exhausted. It was a full 8-hour day of rides, lines, and walking. We found an awesome little SoCal Mexican restaurant for dinner, crashed hard, then made our way home in the morning. As usual, we stopped at the Lenwood exit in Barstow for gas and food. As we were exiting the parking lot to head back to the freeway, we ran into our neighbors (including Elise’s best friend), who were on their way to San Diego. Such a small world.

The Pellegrini family at the end of a fun day at Six Flags Magic Mountain

Back to Business

I’m so glad that the trip worked out because it ended up being a big highlight of our Summer. The kids have been getting asked a lot in school about what they did over Summer break, and the L.A. trip has been one of their top things to call out. With that behind us, we’re back to our routine but still enjoying the warm weather. After last Summer’s record-breaking heat wave, this Summer has been very mild for Las Vegas standards. It’s still very warm out, but the difference between 95 and 115 is huge.

Enzo got his stitches out a few days after the trip, and he was immediately allowed to get back in the water, so we’ve been swimming a lot. I’m trying to stress to him the importance of not running too much and paying attention to where he’s going. He’s not a clumsy kid, he just gets ahead of himself because he’s running or wants to be in the lead. I’m hoping we don’t have any more injuries soon because each of the kids will soon start their new activities. Ava is going to check out volleyball, Elise is joining a girls running group at school, and Enzo is getting into more advanced swimming lessons.

The downtime for Summer was great, but I’m excited for everyone to start getting busy again. Fall, which is my favorite season, is just around the corner. I’m ready for some football and some beautiful Las Vegas Fall weather. See you in September!

Visiting Seattle in 2022

A recap of our recent visit to Seattle, exactly one year after moving away.

Jessica and I recently returned home from a great trip to Seattle. This was our first visit back to the Seattle area since moving away exactly one year earlier. We chose this week because the kids were on their annual Summer RV trip with Grandma and Grandpa Martin. While the kids explored parks and canyons in Utah, Jessica and I were able to visit several friends and family members. Of course, you’re never able to see everyone in one trip, and if we didn’t see you, I apologize. We’re just thankful for all the hugs, conversations, and quality visits we could have in those few days we were in town.

Getting to Seattle

I have to admit that the trip started off a little rocky. First, our flight was delayed, then we arrived in Seattle and had to sit on the runway for another 20 minutes or so. It was literally 50 degrees colder than what we had just left in Vegas, but worse than that; it was very cloudy and rainy.

We didn’t check a bag at the airport and just had our carryons with us, but at the gate, before boarding the plane, they asked passengers to gate-check their bags due to limited overhead space. We have done this in the past, but we always received our gate-checked bags on the other end at the gate. Maybe that was related to us having a stroller at the time, but either way, we volunteered to gate-check these bags, and it turned into a major mistake.

Instead of picking up our bags at the SeaTac airport gate, our bags were sent to baggage claim. Long story short, it took about an hour and 20 minutes to get our two bags at baggage claim. I was so salty waiting for those bags and swore never to gate-check anything again. Some woman from our flight came to me asking if I knew where the bags were, but I glared at her until she walked away. This was precisely why we didn’t want to check any bags. Even people working at the airport spoke about how much of a joke SeaTac airport can be.

Getting the rental car was also a surprisingly slow process, but eventually, we were on the road heading for Bellevue. Unfortunately, it was raining pretty hard, which is something we haven’t seen in Southern Nevada since last Fall. We stopped for food at Taco Time, which has always been a favorite of ours, then met up with Kallan at the Bellevue house.

A night out in Bellevue with Kallan

I knew my salty mood would disappear as soon as I started seeing people we were there to see. Kallan had just finished a hectic week at work (he joined T-Mobile as a Software Engineer about a year ago), so we all decided to head out to downtown Bellevue for food and drinks. We hung out for quite a while, bouncing around to different places. I couldn’t believe how cold and wet it was! Seattle has had an epically bad Spring in terms of weather, so everyone was hoping for some sun to come out during the trip.

We ended up getting some more quality time with Kallan throughout the trip. He took us on his neighborhood walk and pointed out all the interesting real estate facts about properties in the area. We were both really impressed with how grown up he is and how his career is starting out. I’ve always been very close with Kallan and am so proud of him.

Saturday Night in Seattle

The daytime on Saturday was the only quiet time we had during the trip. Jessica drove by our old Bellevue house, which is the one we first moved into when coming back from San Diego. It was Saturday night, however, that turned into one of the highlights of the trip.

We headed to downtown Seattle, eager to have dinner at our friend Michael’s restaurant, 84 Yesler. But before dinner, we had to stop by and see the new El Gaucho. The old location on 1st and Wall was very special to us, playing a significant role in our lives for many years, so seeing the new one was a must.

As soon as we walked in, we were greeted with big hugs from old friends. We weren’t sure how many of our friends from the old location would still be working at the new one. We hadn’t seen any of these people since before the pandemic, so it was a lovely surprise to see so many familiar faces.

I immediately saw my old buddy Luca, who came over and gave me the biggest hug. He gave me a tour and took me back into the kitchen. I couldn’t believe what an upgrade everything was! Not that there was anything wrong with the old place, but they had clearly done several things to upgrade.

We ended up hanging out for about an hour, just catching up with old friends and telling stories. We shared a bowl of truffle soup, which was delicious, but there wasn’t a whole lot else we could eat. Jessica was able to get together with a couple of our Gaucho friends for lunch once more during the trip, while I was at the office, but this was my only opportunity to connect with Gaucho friends.

Michael and Jessica Pellegrini at El Gaucho, Seattle — Checking out the new Gauch!

I always consider my first few years at El Gaucho to be my glory days. Some of my closest friends to this day are people I met during that time. Luca, who I mentioned above, was there, and so was my friend Leon, who is bringing his wife and son to stay with us in Henderson next week. Michael Don Rico, who was my best man at our wedding, was also there, and it was his restaurant we were off to next.

Dinner at 84 Yesler

84 Yesler is not only the restaurant’s name but also its address. Michael has been a managing partner for several years, but this was our first opportunity to dine there. Before I get into the dining experience, I will just say that it’s always very special to me whenever Michael and I get to spend time together.

Once upon a time, MDR introduced me to the city of Seattle. He was, and probably still is, the most well-known guy in the entire Seattle dining scene. Every door was open, and every bar stayed open late. When we first started hanging out, I wasn’t even old enough to drink, but it didn’t matter when I was with him. We had some of the most epic experiences of my lifetime, and it all comes back instantly whenever we get together.

Outside of my long-standing friendship with Michael, Jessica also has her own. She worked with him at Branzino for several years, right around the time we got married, and they became close. As mentioned, he was the best man at our wedding, so there was no way we were coming to Seattle and not seeing him.

Michael Don Rico, Michael Pellegrini, and Jessica Pellegrini, in Seattle, WA — Visiting with Michael outside 84 Yesler

As luck would have it, the same night we were having dinner at 84 Yesler, so was Michael’s fiance Kirsten, who was there with her Mom and brother in celebration of her Mom’s birthday. Kirsten and I also go way back, more than 20 years, because we became friends while working at El Gaucho. She and Michael plan on getting married in Italy next year, and we will be there once the date is set. I hadn’t seen Kirsten in so long, and it was such an unexpected surprise getting to catch up with her.

There were also two of our old Gaucho friends working at 84 Yesler. Victoria, a wine captain, worked with me at El Gaucho for years and took me under her wing to teach me the restaurant business when I was young. Justin, our server, also worked at El Gaucho for years while Jessica was there. So everything comes back to El Gaucho for us.

Everything about our meal at 84 Yesler was exquisite. The service is top-notch, the food was unbelievable, and the professionalism with how that restaurant is run, both in the front of the house as well as the kitchen, was a sight to see. We have never seen such a calm and well-run kitchen in all our years of restaurant work.

The chef stood there silently, observing each cook in the kitchen meticulously crafting their dishes. The food coming out looked like art on a plate, yet the flavor profiles were so rich. They modified several menu items to become vegetarian for us, and we were simply blown away by each course.

The homemade pasta was especially delicious, and the tomato gnocchi was unlike anything we’d had before. Each piece of gnocchi tasted like tomato soup. The cauliflower steak had the char and grill markings of a beef steak, and the puffs of olive oil beneath our sorbet made me feel like we were in Willy Wonka’s candy factory. I love it when food can be playful and unique. We also love being exposed to new flavor profiles or new ways of presenting classic dishes.

I really can’t speak highly enough about 84 Yesler. This is the place to go if you’re looking for an outstanding dining experience in Seattle.

Fiddle Head Ferns at 84 Yesler, Seattle — First course – Fiddle Head Ferns

Spring Herb Salad at 84 Yesler — Second Course – Spring Herb Salad

Tomato Gnocchi at 84 Yesler, Seattle — Pasta course – Tomato Gnocchi

Pappardelle pasta at 84 Yesler, Seattle — Pasta course – Fine herbs Pappardelle

Cauliflower steak at 84 Yesler, Seattle — Entree course – Cauliflower steak with roaster turnips

Father’s Day

Sunday was Father’s Day, and although I was a little bummed not to be spending the day with our kids, I was very happy to be able to resume our Father’s Day tradition with Jim, Brenda, Kristy, Tito, and Madi, at the car show in Burien. Tito wasn’t able to join us this year at the car show due to work, but we were still able to visit with him later that day.

We have done this car show on Father’s Day for many years, but the pandemic broke the streak, so it was really special for everyone to be able to do it again this year. Going to car shows with Jim and Brenda was a big part of my teenage years, and to this day, there is no one beside them who I’d rather go look at classic cars with.

Camaros and Chevelles tend to be our favorites, but as always, we loved walking all around and seeing this year’s variety. One thing we had never seen before was a McClaren. This was a 2014 McClaren MP4, and it was incredible. Living in Vegas, we get spoiled by supercars. Seeing Ferrari’s, Lamborghini’s, and Bentley’s is practically a daily occurrence, but not so with McClaren’s. Those are like another level of supercar, and seeing one parked with the doors wide open was pretty impressive.

After walking around the car show for a bit, we all sat down at a nice little Italian restaurant for lunch. I knew Jim and Brenda would be heading home after that, so it was great to sit down for a meal together. After lunch, Jessica and I headed south to meet Kristy and Madi at their new home in Federal Way. They purchased the home almost the same time we bought our new house last Summer, so we were excited to finally see it in person.

Father's Day car show, 2022 — Visiting the Father’s Day car show in Burien with Jim, Brenda, Kristy, and Madi

As usual, with our visit’s to Kristy’s house, we hung out the entire day. The weather was pretty nice that day, so we hung out in their backyard, playing with the dogs and grilling up all kinds of delicious veggie skewers and Beyond burgers. Tito got home from work in time for dinner, and I honestly couldn’t believe how much of our Vegas Showbiz video catalog he was familiar with.

I know my Mom, Jim and Brenda tend to watch all of our videos, but beyond that, I’m never sure who sees what. I know everyone is busy living their lives, so I don’t expect anyone to watch our stuff, and therefore was blown away when Tito started talking about all the things we’ve done in our videos. It was so cool and humbling to hear someone talking about how much they have enjoyed our content! I really appreciated it.

Getting to spend that afternoon at their new home was really special and exactly why we made the trip. We loved their new home and were thankful for the time spent together that day.

Backyard foundatin — The fountain in Kristy’s backyard – we sat back here all-day

Working in the office

I decided before the trip that I would like to spend some time with my team in the office. Although half of my team is based in Canada, we recently got a new manager who works out of the Bellevue office in Lincoln Square, so I ended up working there Monday through Wednesday. A couple of other team members in the Bellevue area also came into the office, so for a minute there, it felt like the old days.

This was my first time working in an office building in more than two years! It was very quiet, with nowhere near the same number of people you would have seen pre-pandemic. I enjoyed being there, and it was great meeting my teammates in person, but the honest truth is that I work more hours when working from home. The hardest thing about working from home is knowing when to call it a day, but when you physically leave the office at a certain time, chances are your work day is then complete.

While I was working at the office, Jessica was able to meet up with several old friends. She even got to join her old workout group for a couple of classes. After work on Monday, I met up with my friend and old next-door neighbor Jim. We went out for Mexican food, and then he took me to the new home they purchased last November in Snohomish. It was beautiful, and I was so happy to see how things had worked out for them. Jessica, who was already in Snohomish with her friends, was able to pick me up and also see their new place.

On Tuesday, I was able to have lunch in Bellevue with my friend and old neighbor Erik. It was so nice catching up and hearing about the old hood. This was basically the theme for our entire trip; we know we left in a hurry last year so it was important to us to see everyone and catch up after the hectic move was well behind us.

Tuesday night at Julie and Bardi’s house

Tuesday evening was another highlight of the trip. This was our last night in town, and we went out in style! Our good friends Julie and Bardi live in a beautiful home directly on the water in Shoreline. It was the Summer Solstice, and Julie had prepared a delicious meal for us to enjoy out by the water.

Dining on the water in Shoreline — Julie & Bardi’s back porch in Shoreline – views for days!

Bardi broke out some of his fancy whiskey that he had been holding onto, and we had a beautiful evening sitting outside, telling stories, learning about nature’s kingdoms from professor Bardi, and watching the kids play. It’s these types of visits and experiences that we were hoping to have on our trip. Dinner on the water is so quintessentially Seattle, but doing so at your friend’s house is on another level.

Summer Solstice Sunset in Shoreline, Seattle

Friends in Seattle — A great evening with friends!

Wrapping the trip up

Wednesday was the final day of our trip. Once again, I worked at the Bellevue office while Jessica visited with friends. She picked me up from work, and we walked around Bellevue for a bit before heading south to SeaTac.

We ended up having dinner at 13 Coins, which felt very fitting, then returned the car and headed to the plane. Once again, our flight was delayed, but we learned from our previous mistake and did not gate-check our bags.

Arriving home at 1:00 am, our cats Peach and Spencer were so happy to see us. A neighbor had been taking care of them while we were away, and they were all over us the minute we walked in the door. On Friday, Jessica and I drove to St. George, Utah, to meet Grandma Amy and the kids. They had been camping further North, making visits to Bryce Canyon and Zion National Park.

Before heading back home, we hung out and had lunch at a really cool park in St. George. It’s about 2 hours each way, but you end up going through three states because 27 miles of that drive goes through the northeastern corner of Arizona. The canyons in that Arizona portion of the drive make it worth it, and Southern Utah is also very pretty.

Home Sweet Home

It’s great having everyone back home together. Summer is already nearly halfway over, and we haven’t even reached July! We’re looking forward to the 4th of July; then Miss Elise will be turning nine a little more than a week later. Grandma and Grandpa Rudd will be coming for a visit in mid-July, so we’re also looking forward to that.

Thanks for sticking with me on this long-winded post. I wanted to do our trip justice. If we recently saw you in Seattle, all I can say is thank you! We very much enjoyed the trip and look forward to doing it again. Hopefully with the kids next time.

Kids hiking in Mt Charleston, Nevada — On a recent hike with friends in Mt Charleston, Nevada

Pellegrini kids having lunch — Lunch in the backyard

Spring Break in San Diego

A breakdown of the Pellegrini family’s Spring Break 2022 road trip to San Diego. We had a blast visiting family, going to beaches, and visiting the SD Zoo!

After spending several days with Auntie Dana and Uncle Brad at their beautiful home in Fallbrook, California, we recently returned home to Henderson. The occasion was Spring Break, and this was our first time leaving Clark County since moving here last June! Before I get into the trip’s details, I want to thank Dana and Brad so much for their hospitality. They took terrific care of us, and we had the best time seeing them, their house, and reconnecting with Southern California.

Driving to San Diego

The trip began for us on Friday evening. After picking the kids up from school, we packed our final few things in the van and hit the road. Traffic wasn’t an issue for us because not many people are leaving Las Vegas on a Friday evening, but the traffic heading to Las Vegas from California was awful. I highly recommend not driving to Las Vegas from Southern California on a Friday afternoon or evening.

We made great time, and even though we stopped twice, it still took less than 5 hours to get to their house in Fallbrook. If you’re unfamiliar with Fallbrook, it’s in North County, just a bit east of Carlsbad and Oceanside. It has a small-town feel, even though it’s only 45 minutes from the beach. I actually bought a car once in Fallbrook, back when I was first living in Las Vegas. I’ve always loved how it’s known as “The Avocado Capital of the World.”

It used to take us about 5.5 hours to drive from our house in San Diego to my Mom’s house in Las Vegas, but we were much further south. Driving to North County is a lot easier, and even the kids agreed that the drive was no big deal. They’re road trip pros at this point.

Beach Day in Carlsbad

We knew from the weather forecast that Saturday, which was our first full day in town, would have the warmest weather of our trip. Based on this, we decided to make Saturday our beach day. Of course, we would still visit other beaches during the trip, but this was the only day where we would change into swimsuits and play in the water.

Although the water was cold, it was still so much fun splashing around and playing in the sand. It feels weird to say this, but the kids had never been to a sandy beach before. Technically, Ava did when she was a baby, but that’s it. They always loved going to beaches in Washington, but there’s nothing but rocky shores unless you’re going out to the coast (which they were not).

Seeing the kids having a blast at the beach gave Jessica and me a lot of joy. We moved from Seattle to San Diego almost exactly 12 years ago, and we were essentially starting from scratch. There weren’t many extra luxuries in our lives at that time, but one thing we always had was the beach. Going to the beach in San Diego was a huge part of our lives during our first couple of years of marriage, so this experience with the kids felt like we had come full circle.

Getting to experience all of this with Dana and Brad made it that much more special too. I got some great footage of Enzo and Brad playing catch on the beach, and Dana was super helpful with the kids, filming, and keeping everything in order. On our way home to Nevada, we talked about our favorite days of the trip. Although the girls chose the zoo day, Enzo and I both said the day at the beach in Carlsbad was our favorite.

In my opinion, nothing else could replicate the pure sense of joy everyone had during that first beach day. I think you can clearly see it in our video, but I also love this group photo. The funny thing about this photo was that I was doing all the manual settings on the camera to get the exact exposure I wanted, then I had to arrange everyone. Once the whole thing was set up, we posed for the photos on 10-second timers. I took a couple of pictures and thought we were done, only to realize that I had accidentally been recording video the whole time and had taken zero pictures. So then we got to do the entire thing over again.

The Pellegrini family having a beach day in Carlsbad, CA — Elise, Enzo, Ava, Brad, Dana, Jessica, & Michael (L to R, front then back)

Visiting Pacific Beach and Mission Beach

Dana and Brad decided to lay low at home on Sunday, so the 5 of us headed down to Pacific Beach to see our old stomping grounds. First, we rolled through La Jolla and showed the kids the famous cove on the way there. Then, we cruised through Bird Rock on our way toward Pacific Beach, and it was at this point, Elise declared how much she loved beach houses. Although, I think her opinion changed a bit after seeing the type of beach house we used to live in. Let’s just say it was nothing like what she had just seen in those posh little neighborhoods.

Luckily our favorite old pizza spot, Woodstock’s Pizza, was not only still there but open for lunch. So we took the kids there, and most of us really enjoyed our pizza. Unfortunately for Enzo, he accidentally received some type of sweet dough for his pizza, although he didn’t say anything until it was nearly gone, so we didn’t feel like we could ask for another.

The Pellegrini family at Woodstock's Pizza in Pacific Beach, San Diego — Getting ready for Woodstock’s Pizza!

After finishing our lunches, we stumbled upon a cool-looking hat store as we walked toward the beach. Jessica and I have a bit of history purchasing hats on vacation, and the trend continued with this trip. Ava got a pair of sunglasses, but the rest of us walked out with new hats on our heads.

The Pellegrini family doing some shopping in Pacific Beach — Family photo with our new digs

Feeling extra stylish, we walked down the Pacific Beach boardwalk as it turned into Mission Beach, then eventually turned around and made our way back to the van. During the walk, Ava kept commenting on how many people seemed to be showing off for my camera. It’s funny how people react in the presence of a video camera; some try to do something silly or funny, some try to show off, and some try to hide their faces. Ava is very aware of how people react when they see me filming, and the stuff she says in the video cracks me up.

The Pellegrini kids on the Pacific Beach boardwalk — Ava, Enzo, and Elise on the Pacific Beach boardwalk

Taking the kids to Coronado Island

We weren’t ready to call it a day after our boardwalk stroll, so we drove out to Coronado Island and showed the kids the hotel we stayed in on our honeymoon. If you’re not arriving by boat, visiting Coronado Island involves driving over a tall bridge. Think the West Seattle bridge times three. Once you get there, it feels like you’re on a movie set. The neighborhood streets are the most picturesque thing you’ve ever seen.

The Pellegrini family on the beach at Coronado Island — On the beach at Coronado Island

We watched the sunset while the kids played on the beach, then made our way back north to have dinner with Dana and Brad.

A change of plans on Monday

Monday was originally going to be our Zoo day, but unfortunately, it didn’t work out that way. Instead, I woke up in the middle of the night was a splitting migraine headache. Migraines have become more common for me over the past few years, and I was prepared for this. I took migraine medicine right away, but it didn’t work, and I couldn’t go back to sleep.

By the time everyone else was getting up for the day, I was a wreck. I couldn’t make it to the zoo, so Dana and Brad took the kids out for the day while Jessica stayed home with me. I was really bummed out about messing up our plans, but we were able to shift some things around and do the zoo on Tuesday instead.

Visiting the San Diego Zoo

Tuesday was our last full day of the trip, and we made the most of it. We spent the whole day at the San Diego Zoo, and as previously mentioned, it was Ava, Elise, and Jessica’s favorite day of the trip. As expected, we saw a wide variety of animals throughout the day. The monkeys were wildly entertaining, although I liked watching the flamingos as well. In addition, we saw a peacock on the roof, but oddly enough, I’ve seen this before when visiting the zoo in Seattle.

The most memorable part of the day came near the end inside one of the aviary exhibits. I was zooming in on a peacock when I heard Jessica yell out that she had just been pooped on! The same thing had recently happened to my Mom while holding parrots with Ava at Pirate Fest. Unfortunately, I wasn’t there and couldn’t capture that incident on video, but not this time.

I was rolling video the whole time during Jessica’s incident and found it pretty hilarious. It soon became clear that the birds were aiming at us because poop was coming down everywhere. We had to regroup under a small covered area and then make a run for the door. Jessica got hit again as we ran, and I couldn’t stop laughing. For once, it felt like I was filming at the perfect time.

The Pellegrini family at the San Diego Zoo — I accidentally used the wrong camera setting here, putting myself in focus and everyone behind me out of focus. I still like the photo though. Sorry family.

Elise Pellegrini with the lion statue at the San Diego Zoo — Elise bought a lion’s mane headband with her own money

Ava Pellegrini at the San Diego Zoo — Ava looking cool at the zoo with her new shades

Enzo Pellegrini at the San Diego Zoo — Enzo looking as colorful as ever

Enzo and Michael Pellegrini at the San Diego Zoo — Enzo and Dad taking a selfie break

Back to Henderson

Driving back to Henderson, or “Hendo” as we call it, was just as easy as our drive on Friday night. Again, we picked the right time and benefitted from the fact that not many people are driving to Las Vegas on a Wednesday afternoon. Like our drive on Friday night, we stopped twice yet still made it in less than five hours.

Our cats were as excited to see us as we were of them. I need to give my Mom a big shout-out for coming to our house twice while we were gone to check on them. As always, it’s good to come home, but this was our first time coming home to our house in Henderson. As I said earlier, we hadn’t left the county since moving here last June, but one of the things we liked about moving here was that it was a central location for road trips.

There are so many more places we want to drive to, but it felt fitting for our first road trip since moving here would be to San Diego. Obviously, our family has a history there, and introducing our kids to the area was special for us. I hope it won’t be long before our next road trip, but this is one we’ll never forget. Check out the video above to see more of the trip, plus here are a few more photos.

Jessica Pellegrini at the San Diego Zoo — Jessica after the bird poop incident

Jessica and Michael Pellegrini in Pacific Beach, San Diego — Back on the boardwalk after all these years!

The Pellegrini family at Better Buzz coffee in Pacific Beach — Grabbing a coffee at Better Buzz

Elise Pellegrini at the beach in Carlsbad, CA — Elise loving the first beach day

Ava Pellegrini on the beach at Coronado Island — Ava on the beach at Coronado Island

Jessica, Elise, and Enzo Pellegrini in Fallbrook, CA — One last little walk in Fallbrook before heading home

The most magical of weeks

On Saturday night, after about 18 hours of travel, our family returned home to Washington State after spending a week in Orlando, Florida at the Walt Disney World resort. It’s a trip that Jessica and I have been planning for two years, which was originally supposed to take place in April 2020 for our tenth anniversary, but ended up being rescheduled three times due to the pandemic. As expected, it was an amazing week that I’m very excited to talk about, but first I need to give the utmost credit to Jessica for making this happen. She spent so many hours planning things out, getting up at 5:00am to call Disney customer service to make reservations, and making sure every last detail was covered. Above all that, she had to do everything multiple times due to all the rescheduling that went on. She really went above and beyond to make this special trip happen for our family, and we’ll never forget it.

Our trip started on Saturday, May 8. I dropped off Peach and Spencer with my sister Dana and nephew Kallan to spend the week at their house in Bellevue, then late that night we headed to the airport. We had an overnight flight which didn’t leave until 11:00pm and arrived in Miami at 7:30am. The kids were able to sleep a little bit on the flight but no luck for Jessica and me. Overall the flight was fine, but poor Enzo started getting sick to his stomach and ended up throwing up in the bathroom on the plane. It got worse for him once we touched down in Miami, and he started throwing up all over himself in his seat while we were waiting to get off the plane. Luckily there were several moms nearby who started handing us wet wipes and baggies to get things cleaned up.

We had an hour layover in Miami and our primary focus was to get Enzo changed into new clothes and nurse him back to health. Luckily we were able to do that, and our flight from Miami to Orlando was uneventful, but it was a crazy way to start the trip.

Any Disney trip is going to involve waiting in lines, and for us the lines began at the airport. The line to get onto the bus to our hotel was pretty insane, but they moved it along pretty well and we were on our way in no time. We learned on the bus that Disney World is 44 square miles, which is the same size as San Francisco! It was a hot muggy day when we arrived and I think Enzo put it best when he said “the air feels different here”.

After arriving at the Art of Animation hotel and getting settled into our room, which was themed after the movie Cars, we went down to the pool for a swim. We were all tired and hungry, but the pool was calling and the kids would have nothing else. We spent an hour in the water, but I think everyone started hitting their breaking point, so we ended up going back to the room and taking a 3 hour nap.

We spent the rest of that evening exploring different properties via the Skyliner, then had dinner at our hotel. It wasn’t our usual way of celebrating Mother’s Day, but it was special and memorable nonetheless. We were also immediately impressed by how gracious and friendly the staff, I mean “Cast Members”, was to our whole family. They would take time out of their day to talk to us extensively and tell us how much they appreciated us coming. There’s something so special about the experience you get from Disney properties and we felt that from day one.

Monday was when the trip kicked into high gear, as that was our first day visiting one of the parks. We spent the day at Disney’s Hollywood Studios, which is one of their newer parks, and it ended up being one of the best days of the trip. Several of our favorite attractions were there, including Mickey and Minnie’s Runaway Railroad, the Tower of Terror, and Star Wars Rise of the Resistance. The Star Wars attraction was a special one that not everyone can get into. They only release so many passes per day and you have to be on the app at exactly 7:00am to make your reservation. The spots all fill up within 15 seconds and you have to use an atomic clock to request it at exactly 7:00am. The clock on your phone is liable to be off by a few seconds, which can be the difference in not getting a pass, but we did everything right and ended up getting passes for that afternoon. I’m so glad we did too because Rise of the Resistance was Jessica’s favorite attraction of the week, and mine as well. It was such a cool combination of traditional ride, human interaction with actors, and a huge set to walk through.

We had a really fun lunch at Hollywood Studios that was themed after an old drive in theater. Each table was designed like a car from the 1950’s and the movie screen was showing all kinds of old sci-fi movie clips. The food was great and the kids had never seen anything like it before. They couldn’t believe people used to get in their cars to go watch movies, which was funny, but when you grow up in the on-demand tablet era it makes sense.

That night we were all exhausted and everyone slept really well. It was a very hot and humid day, and we walked 8 miles throughout the day, so we crashed pretty hard. Hollywood Studios ended up being Jessica and Elise’s favorite park of the trip, so it was a great way to kick things off. Luckily we were able to sleep in the next morning because Epcot Center, our next park, didn’t open until 11:00am.

We arrived at Epcot Center a few minutes before opening and ended up spending about 10 hours there. It was an all-day thing, and for Enzo and I, it was our favorite day of the trip. It’s more old school compared to Hollywood Studios, but it had some awesome rides, and I really loved visiting all the countries. The ‘Soarin’ over the World’ attraction was our first one of the day, and it was definitely my favorite thing we did that day, but Mission Space and the Chevrolet Test Track were family favorites as well.

We had our only character meal of the week at the Garden Grill at Epcot Center and it was really fun. Mickey, two of the chipmunks, and Goofy all made multiple appearances at our table, which everyone got a big kick out of. The dining room sits on a slowly rotating surface, so you’re constantly moving around in a big circle. By the time we finished our meal we were exactly back to the point where we had begun.

By the time we left Epcot Center that night it was nearly closing time and we had walked 10 miles. We visited every country, the kids got stickers from each one, and did basically everything the park had to offer. It’s a bit more of an educational experience compared to the other parks, but it still had some really fun rides and attractions. Overall it was a hit for everyone, but Enzo and I loved it the most.

Wednesday was our rest day, so we slept in and spent the rest of the morning at the pool. Later that afternoon we took a bus to Disney Springs, aka Downtown Disney, for shopping and dinner. We ended up getting caught in a crazy rainstorm unlike anything you’d ever see in Seattle. It came down incredibly hard for about 30 minutes, then cleared up and the sun came out. We walked around shopping for a while, then had dinner at an Irish restaurant called Raglan Road. It was fun because there were dancers doing all kinds of traditional Irish dancing, plus they had traditional live music being played. It was a fun experience and the kids got a huge kick out of watching the dancers.

Thursday we spent the day at Magic Kingdom and started the day off with Space Mountain, which has always been one of my favorites. We ended up doing all the famous attractions like Pirates of the Caribbean, the Haunted Mansion, the teacups, the Swiss Family treehouse, and Big Thunder Mountain. It was a nostalgic day for Jessica and me because it reminded us of our childhood, and the kids had a great time as well, but oddly enough it wasn’t anyone’s favorite park. Compared to the other parks, Magic Kingdom is more old school, but still has all the Disney charm. We were there for 8 or 9 hours and once again everyone was exhausted by the end of the day.

Friday was our final day of the trip and we spent it at Animal Kingdom. We weren’t really sure what to expect but were pleasantly surprised. It turned out to be Ava’s favorite day of the trip, but we all loved it. There were a variety of fun rides and attractions, but definitely ‘Flight of Passage’, which is an immersive experience based on the movie Avatar, was my favorite. Regardless of whether you’re a fan of the movie or not, if you’re at that park it’s something you have to do. The other thing that we really loved doing was the Safari, which was by far the closest thing to a real Safari any of us had ever experienced. They have so much open land for the animals to live on that you could fit all of Magic Kingdom just within the Safari area. We saw hippos, rhinos, giraffes, ostrich, elephants, and many others. Unfortunately the lions were sleeping but it was still an awesome experience.

By the end of the day everyone was exhausted once again. The days are really long and you’re on your feet all day, but we were very proud of the kids. There were times when everyone had a bit of a breakdown, but overall they did great and it was a trip we’ll never forget. The only thing I would change would be Disney’s mask rule, which was as strict as I’ve seen anywhere. You literally had to have a mask on at all times unless you were stationary eating or drinking.

I had an experience where I was drinking a cup of coffee while in line for a ride, which was fine because I wasn’t moving, but as soon as I started walking forward without my mask on I got called out by some kid working in the park about having to be masked up if you’re moving. We also had experiences where we would walk into a store in a Disney park wearing our masks and would be reminded by people not to remove them. It just felt a bit overboard at times, and we’re saying this as residents of Washington State, which is pretty strict already when it comes to Covid protocol.

The most ironic part of the whole mask thing was that right after we got on the bus to head back to the airport, Jessica pulled up a news article on her phone saying that as of that day, Disney was no longer requiring guests to wear masks while outdoors. The new rule was literally being instituted as we were leaving, and it was like the old mask rule was rolling out of town on the bus with us. You couldn’t script this stuff! The masks were especially rough outside too because of how hot and humid it was, but there’s nothing we could do but comply. We knew what we were getting ourselves into and weren’t going to let it ruin our trip.

Saturday ended up being an incredibly long travel day for us. We were up at 6:30am and on the bus at 7:45, but our flight wasn’t until 11:20. You had no choice on when to board the bus, so it was an earlier than necessary start, but it was beyond our control. We flew from Orlando to Los Angeles, which is a 5 hour flight, and I had the pleasure of sitting with Enzo and taking him to the bathroom every 20 minutes. He kept thinking he was going to throw up, even though he never did. He’s never had motion sickness before but perhaps this is something for us to be aware of when flying with him.

We got to Los Angeles and then had a 5 hour layover until our flight home. This was especially annoying because we didn’t book our flights this way, but the airline shuffled our flights around and that’s how it all ended up. It was a bit eerie at LAX airport; even on a Saturday afternoon it felt like a ghost town and practically everything was closed. The flight from L.A. to Seattle that night was nice and easy but everyone was exhausted. By the time we landed around 9:00pm, we had all been up since 3:30am Pacific time, so all we wanted to do was get to our van and go straight to Auntie Dana’s house. We were very excited to see Peach and Spencer, then we crashed hard. Unfortunately we were all still on East Coast time, so the kids and I were up at 5:30am on Sunday.

We couldn’t go home Saturday night because our house went on the market on Thursday and they were going to be showing it all weekend. We had an agreement with our realtor that we wouldn’t come home until 6:00pm on Sunday, so we spent the whole day hanging out with Dana, Kallan, and Anna at their house. It was a beautiful day so we spent a couple hours at a park that morning, then hung out for the rest of the afternoon at the house while the kids played soccer in the yard with Anna.

That evening was when a new type of excitement set in, as we were finally able to go home and talk with our realtor to evaluate offers on our house. It took basically all night to settle on an offer, but his strategy of listing low to get a lot of eyes on the property and encourage a bidding war worked out like a charm. In the end there were two families trying to outbid each other and I’ll just say that we could have never imagined things working out the way they did. We feel beyond fortunate with the way things worked out and owe all the credit to our realtor Bunsong Pumma.

The only downside to our home selling experience is that we were hoping to be able to stay in our house until the end of June, but instead we’re going to need to be out by June 16. This means that the next four weeks are going to be pretty crazy for us but we’ll be fine. We’re just trying to get everything wrapped up, scheduled, and figured out. We still have family and friends we want to see but we’ll make it all work.

Having the trip behind us was a major checkpoint on this whole journey and now that we’ve accepted an offer on our house I feel like these next few weeks are going to fly by. We’ll be on the road heading to Las Vegas before we know it, and it’s crazy that we’ll be there before Father’s Day. My mom is already going well out of our way to help us in any way she can and she can’t wait for us to arrive.

We took a ton of photos on our trip, and I’m so glad we got the Disney photo package, so here are a bunch of our favorites.

Elise exploring the Art of Animation hotel grounds

Checking out the Star Wars exhibit at Hollywood Studios

Enzo showing what ‘Disney Tired’ means after day one

Getting started at Epcot Center. Each of those characters behind us is made entirely of flowers.

Someday Jessica and I will go to Italy together. For now Epcot Italy will do.

Visiting Mickey at our character meal. Elise couldn’t be bothered to remove the bread from her mouth.

We weren’t allowed to remove our masks at the photo studio. Oh well…

We found Enzo’s Hideaway at Disney Springs

The kids enjoyed this rollercoaster so much we did it twice

Silverwood

All about our family trip to the Silverwood theme park in Northern Idaho, August 2020.

Yesterday we returned home after spending a few days in Northern Idaho visiting the Silverwood theme park. Although the kids had already been there a couple times on previous Summer road trips with Grandma and Grandpa, this was our first time going as a family, and it was the first time Jessica and I got to go.

We left on Sunday morning and basically just drove east on I-90 all the way to Coeur d’Alene. That day ended up being the hottest day in Seattle in 11 years, so it was the perfect day to be in our nice air conditioned van. Even though we stopped a couple times we still made really good time and ended up arriving in Coeur d’Alene too early to check into our hotel, which was about 10 minutes north of the lake.
We had heard good things about the public park at the lake, and since we had time to kill, we decided to go hang out there for a bit. It was a beautiful Sunday afternoon, but honestly it was a bit shocking because not only was it packed with thousands of people, but literally no one besides our family was wearing a mask, even though there were signs everywhere telling you to do so. It was culture shock for us because we’re coming from Western Washington, where everyone in public is wearing a mask, and now suddenly it’s the exact opposite.

While I certainly understand the concept of distancing while outdoors, and not needing to wear a mask when doing so, trust me when I say this definitely was not happening. Not only were people all packed together around and in the water, but there was a country music concert going on in the park with hundreds of people gathered around to watch. Being literally the only people wearing masks meant we were receiving a lot of stares. I’m normally not that aware of people around me in public but this was blatant, and I’ve never felt like such a minority in my life.

In addition to the lack of masks, there was an entire family (kids included) selling Trump t-shirts in the park, and the singer of the country band kept making remarks about “free country” and “honky tonk”. I’m certainly not passing judgement on anyone and was just there to relax for a bit after driving all day, but it was so drastically different from what we’re used to that it was hard to believe. It wouldn’t have been bad if it weren’t for all the blatant stares we were receiving, but whatever. As it turned out this would end up being the most uncomfortable portion of the trip.

After an hour or so at the park we made our way to the hotel, the Triple Play Resort, and were instantly impressed with all the attractions. There was a Go Kart track, bumper boats, mini golf, an indoor water park, a ropes climbing course, laser tag, laser maze, a bowling alley, video arcade, and more! We already had a free day planned for the middle of our stay and we instantly decided that we would be spending that entire day at the hotel taking part in all these activities. Also, since we had nothing to do that first evening, we decided to spend it at our hotel’s water park. For that entire evening we were going down water slides and swimming in the wave pool. Definitely a fun way to start things off.

It was 100 degrees on Monday, which was the hottest day of the trip, so we decided it would be the perfect day to spend at Silverwood’s water park. We got there right when they opened at 11:00, found a nice shady spot under a tree to spread out our stuff, and proceeded to spend the next 7 hours going down slides, floating in the lazy river, and swimming in the wave pool.

The girls made a friend that ended up hanging around with us off and on throughout the day and everyone had a blast. We were diligent all day with the sunscreen and consequently no one got burned, even though we were out in the intense heat all day long. It was the perfect Summer day, and overall probably my favorite day of the trip. I grew up going to water parks every Summer so they will always hold a special place for me.

Tuesday was our day to chill at the hotel, but there was so much to do we certainly never felt bored. I loved taking the kids out in the Go Karts, and was so impressed with how well they all did on the ropes course. There was an interactive 3D video game that we ended up playing 4 or 5 times throughout the day, and we even made it back to the hotel’s water park that evening. Other than getting lunch and dinner, we never left the hotel that day, but it was still a super fun day and everyone was exhausted by bedtime.

Wednesday we were back at Silverwood, this time at the theme park for a day full of rides and roller coasters. It was a bit cooler that day, although it still reached a high of 92 later in the afternoon. Once again we found a shady spot under a tree to spread out a blanket and leave our stuff. That way we had a home base for snacking and relaxing throughout the day.

We started things off by letting the kids go on some little rides, then we made our way over to the roller coaster park for the big stuff. Ava, Elise and I did a ride called the Panic Plunge where you get strapped into a seat and taken straight up about 300-400 feet. As soon as you reach the top you hear a click and immediately you start falling down so incredibly fast. Ava says she screamed the whole way down but honestly I have no recollection; I was too scared to scream. Jessica says the look on my face once we came to a stop was priceless. All I know is everyone in line looked at me and busted out laughing, then after the laughter subsided this teenage kid who was waiting in line said “I’m not going”.

We spent the rest of the day doing all the rides, sometimes multiple times each. Once again we were there for nearly 7 hours, so it was a very full day. As promised, we took the kids shopping at the gift shop and they were each thrilled with what they picked out. Elise got a stuffed goat whom she named Toby, Enzo got a Silverwood hoodie sweatshirt, and Ava got two little things: a mood ring and a pair of BFF necklaces – one for her and one for Elise.

That night we had dinner at this great little Italian restaurant near the hotel called Radici Italian Bistro. They put us in a private room and we ate like kings. Calamari, caprese salad, pizza and chicken for the kids, eggplant parmesan for Jessica and I. Each of the kids loved the calamari and Enzo discovered a new love for fresh mozzarella cheese and balsamic vinegar. It was the best restaurant meal we’ve had this entire year and was the perfect way to finish things off.

Yesterday morning we got packed up fairly early and hit the road. It was an easy drive home, and even with more stops than we made on the way there, we were still home within 6 hours. The best stop was at the scenic view looking over the Columbia River. Overall I was very impressed with how well everyone handled the road trip. Certainly there were some “Are we there yet?” moments, but overall it was great and I expect us to be doing more of these in the future. We have the perfect van for it because the kids can relax in the back watching movies while Jessica and I talk up front. Getting our new cartop carrier was a game changer as well because we now have so much space for our stuff.

The only part of the trip that was a little off putting was the initial experience at the park in Coeur d’Alene. In looking back at it my feelings are torn; on one hand it felt a lot like our overall national attitude towards the pandemic, which is if you just ignore it then it won’t exist and there’s nothing to worry about. On the other hand, the whole point of this trip was for us to get away and have a little fun. We’ve been playing by the rules for 6 months, have barely left our house, and deserved a getaway like this, especially considering our Disney trip is on hold until at least Spring 2021. Ultimately I’m glad we went, and nothing could make Jessica and I happier than seeing the kids having so much fun. We felt like we needed this, and that we deserved it, so it was great to finally come through for once this year.

Now that the trip is over, for all intents and purposes, our Summer is done as well. Monday Jessica will be resuming home school with the kids, but we’re going to ease our way into it over the first couple weeks. We’re now very much looking forward to our kittens coming home, which should be in the next 3-4 weeks. We took a lot of photos on the trip, so here are our favorites.

Ava enjoying some Dippin’ Dots at the water park

Elise did so good on the ropes course. She was pretty scared but the guy behind her was so helpful. We were very proud of her.

Visiting the Columbia River lookout on our way home

Happy 7th Birthday Elise!

Today our sweet Elise turns 7 years old! I remember her birth like it was yesterday and couldn’t be more proud of the young lady she has already grown into. She’s such a great kid with so many amazing qualities; not only are Jessica and I beyond lucky to have her as a daughter, but Ava and Enzo are also extremely lucky to have such a loving and caring sister. Although the circumstances these days throughout the world make it difficult for us to throw a proper birthday celebration, we still wanted it to be a special day for her and show her just how much she is loved.

For a while now Elise and I have had a deal that I would take her shopping on her birthday, but she has been going back and forth on whether she would prefer a longboard or a scooter. She’s been thinking about it a lot because Ava and our good friend Avery love riding their longboards up and down our street, but she always enjoys riding scooters as well. I told her we would go to the store to look at both, and most likely she will find ‘the one’ when she sees it.

I was able to wrap up all my meetings by lunchtime, then the two of us headed out to the sporting goods store to have a look. We looked at the longboards first and there were a few she was interested in, then we took a look at the scooters. After a few seconds she said “Daddy, I’ve made up my mind. I’m getting a longboard.” I loved how serious she was about her decision and was happy to go along. She ended up picking out a really cool Stella longboard with orange wheels and an orange design on the bottom. It was fitting considering orange is her favorite color.

Earlier that morning she opened some of her presents, which included walkie-talkies from Grandma and Grandpa Rudd, an mp3 player from Nana, and a bluetooth speaker with microphones from Grandma and Grandpa Martin. After returning home with her new longboard she had lunch and then got out on the street to break it in, but took a cake and ice cream break in the afternoon. Later on we all went to our regular Tuesday evening Jiu-Jitsu class and she was greeted with a ‘surprise’, which was a pig pile from the other kids in class. In this case the only other kids in class were Ava and Enzo, so it wasn’t bad. I gave her the option of skipping class because it was her birthday but she wanted none of it. She really loves Jiu-Jitsu so it was a fun way to spend her birthday evening.

In addition to everything today, we’ve got some fun stuff to look forward to this weekend. Grandma and Grandpa Martin are on their way up from Colorado in the bus, along with their grandson Cole from Texas, and will be here tomorrow. This weekend we’re having a few friends over to skateboard and ride bikes outside, enjoy some treats, and watch an outdoor movie once it starts getting dark. Then on Sunday or Monday the kids will head out on a road trip with G&G for about a week. They won’t be going too far away but there’s so much to see without leaving Washington so I’m looking forward to hearing about it.

Speaking of road trips, when I wrote my last post I focused on our change of plans around Disney World and how we had decided on doing a 3 week road trip to and from Florida. At that time the Covid-19 situation seemed to be trending in the right direction and Summer felt like the safest time for us to go on our long-awaited vacation. Unfortunately things with Covid have taken a significant turn for the worse and Florida has become arguably the most dangerous place in the world, so even though Disney World has reopened, we have made the tough decision to once again postpone our trip.

I knew there was a decent chance of this happening but it’s still disappointing because we hate to keep letting the kids down. However we have to be smart and can’t allow ourselves to be so dogmatic about the trip that we’re willing to risk our health and safety in order to make this vacation happen. At this point the plan is to reschedule the trip for May 2021, right between Spring Break and Summer. Hopefully by then things will be in a better state and we’ll be able to have the vacation we’ve been hoping for, but at this point nothing will surprise me.

For a while there we had a plan B, which involved a road trip to San Diego, the Grand Canyon, and Las Vegas, but unfortunately that’s not going to work out either. Just this week California had to shut everything down again due to spikes in Covid outbreaks, and Arizona + Nevada aren’t doing a whole lot better, so there’s no point in us going there either. Again it’s all very disappointing, but there’s nothing we can do besides be smart and keep our family safe.

At this point we’re onto plan C, which will most likely involve a very small road trip somewhere east of the mountains. We’re still working out details but are considering a couple days in Couer d’Alene Idaho so we can take our kids to Silverwood, which is a big theme park and water park. The kids have actually been there before with Grandma and Grandpa but Jessica and I have never been, and we really want to do something fun this Summer. I’m not worried about our ability to keep our distance and stay safe, and only crossing one state line seems most preferable at this point. We haven’t finalized anything yet but that’s what we’re thinking about at the moment. Considering what a strange year it’s been we just want to do something special to remember this Summer by, so hopefully this works out.

In the spirit of doing something special for the family, we also have some exciting news in the sense that we have adopted two purebred Siberian kittens! It’s been about 4 years since Bella passed away and we haven’t had a family pet since then. For a while now we felt like a cat would be the ideal family pet for us, but due to Jessica’s allergy we never thought it would be feasible.

After doing some research we learned that when a person is allergic to cats, it’s based on a protein secreted in their saliva called “Fel d”, which dries on their fur when they clean themselves and causes an allergic reaction for some people who come near them. Luckily not all cats secrete this protein though, and the Siberian breed is known as one of the most hypoallergenic breeds of house cats available. We were able to expose Jessica to them one afternoon and everything was totally fine, so we felt comfortable in moving forward.

We ended up finding a breeder in North Seattle and were able to reserve two sibling kittens who were born on the 4th of July. They need to stay with their mother for the first ten weeks, meaning they won’t be coming to live with us until mid-September. While we wish they could be with us now, after seeing how much work newborn kittens can be we’re happy to wait a couple months before bringing them home. We have never worked with a breeder before and would normally be inclined to rescue an animal from a shelter, but due to the allergy limitation we felt like this was our only option. Getting two was really in the best interest of the cats because everything we’ve read says they do so much better when they’re not alone.

At this point in our lives we definitely feel ready to commit to pets again, and cats just feel like the right fit for us. They’re a low maintenance pet but still show a lot of affection. While all three of the kids were excited, there’s no question Elise was the most excited at the prospect of getting a cat. She has always been obsessed with cats and was over the moon when we broke the news. Considering all the let downs we’ve had this year, it felt so nice for Jessica and I to give them some exciting good news. They certainly deserve it.

In other family news, we recently spent the 4th of July at our house with Kristy, Beto, and Madi. This was literally the first time we had seen any family since January, so it was really nice to get together. We had dinner, then hung out in the cul-de-sac with the neighbors and let off a ton of fireworks. Rumor has it that this was the last year we would be allowed to do our own fireworks, so it was fun to be able to share that with them. Hopefully we can set up another get-together sometime soon.

That’s about all for now, but before I go I just want to again wish Elise a very happy 7th birthday! We love you more than you can imagine and hope you enjoyed your special day. Noi ti amiamo così tanto!

Enzo is now attending Jiu-Jitsu classes with us and loving it!

Summer fun with our good friends Avery and Nathan

Our little furballs on the day of their birth

Someone is ready to open their presents!

Taking a family photo in the driveway on the 4th of July has become a tradition for us

Making Plans

If you’re reading this post around the time it was written, then you surely know these are crazy and often scary times we’re living in. Just as it appeared that we were transitioning out of the Covid-19 quarantine, the biggest racial protest in a generation broke out, sending the entire world into such a frenzy that even the pandemic barely made the evening news. It’s an unprecedented time that none of us will ever forget, so Jessica and I are more focused than ever on staying out of harm’s way and placing our entire focus on that which we can control.

As far as the racial protests go, I think it was long overdue, but I also feel the lockdown from the pandemic, and all the tensions surrounding that experience, helped it reach a boiling point. People were getting fed up on so many different levels that it was easier than normal for things to implode. I agree wholeheartedly with the peaceful protesters and want their message to be heard, which is why I hate seeing their message overshadowed by violence, destruction, and theft. In some ways I feel like we’re in the middle of the perfect human storm, and that we should all be afraid to a certain extent.

Speaking of storms, let us not forget that every year we set new records in Summer and Fall for natural disasters, and it’s not like those things are going to disappear or take a year off just because we’re dealing with all these other problems. The uncontrollable wildfires, tornadoes, hurricanes, and floods will be here soon enough, and I’m worried about our ability to deal with them based on everything else going on. We seem to be in a bit of a downward spiral, so again I feel it’s more important than ever to do your part and find your own ways to make an impact.

For our family, there’s no question that making an impact starts at home. We have 3 little people that need to be brought up the right way. Simply not being racist is no longer good enough, so last week we started getting books that explain racism and race relations to children. We’ve watched videos on the Civil Rights movement, watched specialized programming explaining these topics to children, and engaged in conversations once thought of as ‘uncomfortable’. Who is it really uncomfortable for though? Certainly not the kids…

Beyond the children, I’m finding dialogs opening up everywhere. Certainly they are at work, but the same can be said for our Jiu-Jitsu school, which just reopened a few days ago. I’m one of the only adults in the school who isn’t involved in law enforcement or the military, and the conversations we’ve had there have been really interesting. One guy is ex Secret Service, two more guys are Seattle PD, there’s Marines, Army & Navy vets, and then you have someone like me from the tech industry. Everyone is super respectful of each other’s opinions, and hearing things from their perspective has been very interesting to me. Overall I feel like dialog via face-to-face communication is so much more powerful and constructive than anything you’re going to get from social media, but it’s difficult when you’re still supposed to be social distancing yourselves due to the pandemic. The resounding theme for me these days is to do my part, on all levels, and I find that everyone I associate myself with is doing the same.

Although the world seems to have recently drifted into unchartered waters, we still don’t see any harm in making plans for the future. Our Disney World trip, which was originally supposed to occur in early April in celebration of our 10 year anniversary, had to be pushed back to late May, then pushed back again. At this point we’re scheduled to go the last week in August, and as long as Disney follows through with their plan to reopen in mid-July, we should be in good shape.

In some ways it may even work out to our advantage because only people with existing reservations will be allowed to go this Summer, and that includes us. This means there’s a good chance that it will be much less busy than normal, but we’ll see. At this point we have learned to expect the unexpected and won’t be surprised if we have to change our plans again, but that’s fine. Every time we reschedule the trip Disney sweetens the deal even more for us, so soon enough they may be paying us to come.

While we’re confident in Disney’s ability to provide a safe environment, our biggest safety concern for the trip centered around air travel. Being in various airports and airplanes means a lot of exposure to people from all around the world, so we started kicking around the idea of extending the trip from one week to three, and turning it into a cross-country roadtrip. I have plenty of unused vacation time, and we don’t have any other school or work schedules to worry about. Plus we have a very comfortable van that is meant for long-distance trips, so we decided to go for it.

The biggest blocker to our roadtrip plans would be getting a refund on our airfare. We purchased the tickets last year through Orbitz, and they were non-refundable. I decided to take on the challenge of getting our money back, and started by calling Orbitz customer service. I went into this whole ordeal with two requirements: accept nothing other than a refund, and treat everyone I speak to professionally and respectfully. I assume getting screamed at is a common occurrence for these customer service representatives, but I’m simply not willing to go there. It doesn’t make me feel better about myself to yell at someone, and I feel like that type of behavior would only be detrimental to my cause.

As expected, no one was very eager to give me my money back, but each time I spoke to someone I would make some type of progress, setting things up for the next step. Again, I feel that being calm and respectful was crucial because eventually someone would level with me and tell me exactly what they could and could not do, as well as help me get one step closer to my ultimate goal of a refund.

After speaking with a couple people from Orbitz, I was led to United Airlines customer service, which is who we were flying with. Eventually this led me to filing a reimbursement claim with them online. I decided to use my work email address so they would know who I was employed by, and I explained the entire circumstances as eloquently as possible.

At the end of my explanation, I said that my employer provided me with legal assistance, and although it would not be my preference to utilize those services, I was prepared to if my refund request was denied. I’m not sure if that ended up being a factor or not, but two days later I had an email confirming our full refund for all five tickets, and the day after that the refund was received. So, it took a fair amount of effort and perseverance, but kudos to United Airlines for doing the right thing.

With that out of the way, we were free to start planning “The Great American Roadtrip”. There are so many places and cities we’re excited to see, and while I’m sure there will be times where Jessica and I are cursing ourselves for making such a crazy decision, I’m equally certain that this will be something we remember forever.

The plan is to take a week getting to Florida so we can see Mount Rushmore, visit family in Cedar Rapids for a couple days, spend a day in Nashville, and see some other attractions in the Southeast before arriving in Orlando. We will then spend a week as planned at Disney World, then take another week to get home. We haven’t finalized our plans regarding which route we will take home, but we know we want to see the Grand Canyon, and spend a couple days visiting family and friends in Las Vegas. It’s going to be an epic trip, and we feel like that timeframe from mid-August through the first week of September is ideal on multiple levels.

So that’s the plan for now. We won’t feel like anything is set in stone until Disney World officially reopens next month, but again there’s nothing wrong with having a plan, and we’re willing to adjust as needed. I feel confident that it’s going to work out, so we just need to be patient and see.

In other family news, Elise recently lost her first tooth, which was exciting. She wanted me to pull it, so I was happy to oblige. She got a little freaked out and started screaming at one point, but to her credit she pulled herself together and we got it done without much discomfort. She was so cute carrying around her “Toothy” pillow the rest of the night, and of course the Tooth Fairy was kind to her.

Ava and Enzo are also both doing really well. All 3 of the kids are thriving under Mom’s home schooling, and their test results are now proving it. Ava has become quite the little skateboarder these days, and Enzo is constantly out there tearing it up on his bike and scooter. Also, Jessica is becoming a master at jigsaw puzzles.

In terms of activity, last month Jessica and I took up jumping rope as our preferred method of cardio exercise. I find it to be a really efficient way to get your heart rate up, and although I’m now able to go to Jiu-Jitsu again, I’m going to continue jumping rope because you get into such a zone when doing it.

It was humbling at first because you can’t get into the right rhythm, and you’re gassed in the first minute or two, but just like anything else if you stick with it you start improving rapidly. These days I go out there and do 600-700 reps without breaking a sweat. Jessica used to be a member of the “Iowa Skippers” and is definitely better at it than I am, but it’s all good. We were joking that we should start a neighborhood rope jumping club because it’s an activity that enforces social distancing – if you get too close to each other you get stung by the rope.

I think all this time at home caused me to start getting a little stir crazy because I recently decided on a whim to shave my beard. Last time I did this was at my Mom’s house for Christmas about 2.5 years ago, and all I remember is Ava crying and refusing to look at me. Due to that traumatic experience, I grew it right back and didn’t really think about shaving again, until now. This time around I decided to have the kids help me shave the beard, and it seemed to help, but they’re still asking me when will it be back.

One thing I’ve been enjoying since then is shaving with a straight edge razor. I’d never done it before, but I definitely understand why people get so into it. It’s much more of an experience than normal shaving, and if you do it right, you can’t possibly get a closer shave. This is because the number one rule when shaving with a straight razor is that you have to stretch the skin super tight. The combination of stretching the skin and shaving against the grain results in the closest shave possible.

Every time I tell someone I’m shaving with a straight razor I get some type of warning about being careful, and it’s true you have to go slow and be careful, but what that really means is taking the time to learn the technique behind it all. It’s not like normal shaving with a safety razor, so I had to watch a few videos on YouTube to understand it. Things like stretching the skin, maintaining a 30 degree blade angle, and using different parts of the blade for different areas of your face are crucial. I think the reason I like it so much is because it is very technical (like most other things I enjoy doing), so I usually just put on some music and take my time with it.

I guess the common theme these days is finding ways to stay engaged and happy when your normal routine no longer exists, and for our family it hasn’t been too much of a problem. We’re finding ways to stay informed, do our part, and make a positive impact however we can while always placing top priority on staying safe. As usual, we have a lot to look forward to, but not just about the big things like vacation. Simply getting together with family or friends for a Saturday afternoon will be such a treat once the time finally comes. I just hope it comes sooner than later.