I’ll start this post by saying I’m especially thankful we have Mother’s Day this month because it gives me something specific to write about. We’ve got a consecutive month streak here on the ol’ family blog dating back to July, 2011, and not even the Covid quarantine is going to stop that. I’m sure I would have found something to write about regardless, but having Mother’s Day this month works out nicely.
We’ve been lucking out with really nice weather lately, so we took advantage of it this weekend and made the most out of this ongoing situation. Friday afternoon we took a family trip into Seattle so Jessica could clean out her locker at El Gaucho. I hadn’t been into the city since our Christmas Eve dinner, and this was our last chance to say goodbye to a place that has been so instrumental in our lives. It was fun seeing the kids run around the building, but a bit sad knowing this would be my last time there, at least in its current form factor. We got to see some old friends and catch up, which was an unexpected surprise. On our way out they gave us a candle holder from the cigar lounge as a souvenir.
Afterwards we decided to walk around the city a bit and see what it was like since the world flipped into this alternate reality. On one hand walking up and down the streets of Belltown was like a trip down memory lane, but it’s a far cry from the Seattle I remember. The best analogy I can make is to the movie Back To The Future II, where Marty comes back to 1985 but it’s a different version of 1985 where Biff Tannen is the most powerful man in America and owns that big hotel & casino. It’s technically the same place, but everything is different, and that’s exactly what Seattle felt like.
As we walked down the streets I was reminded of memories that took place in almost every restaurant and bar we passed, but now all those places are boarded up to try and protect themselves from violence and theft. In an attempt to make things look less dystopian, the boards are mostly covered with painted murals, but it’s still a sad sight.
In making our way out of Belltown and into the market, I realized the ratio of crazy versus non-crazy people was way off. Basically all the crazies are still out and about, but almost all of the non-crazies are sheltering at home, so that added to the strange vibe. As we walked through Pike Place Market I was struck by just how many businesses and vendors weren’t open for business on such a gorgeous Friday afternoon. It should have been packed with people, and instead we stuck out as some kind of weird tourist family, even though nothing could be further from the truth.
Later we made our way down to the waterfront and again it’s just so strange that on such a beautiful afternoon, with the mountains out in all directions and not a cloud in the sky, we could have that entire walkway basically to yourselves. Normally we’d be annoyed by all the tourists and the constant hustle & bustle, but now things have flipped drastically. Hopefully it won’t be this way for much longer, especially considering all the progress our state has made in flattening the curve, but in reality no one really knows what to expect. We’re hearing rumours from various sources that schools won’t be reopening in the Fall, which means most likely athletics won’t resume either. We’re still trying to figure out what the new normal will be, but right now all we can do is roll with it and be thankful for the situation we’re in. I often think about the fact that if we hadn’t moved to San Diego after getting married, I probably would have never left El Gaucho because there wouldn’t have been a good enough reason to, but what would that mean for us now? It’s scary to think about, and definitely puts things in perspective.
Earlier last week I made a trip to my office for the first time in two months. Upon hearing that we will have the option to remain working from home through October (at least), I decided to go grab a few more things from my desk. I was in the building for about 45 minutes and never saw another person the whole time. There was a box on my desk containing my 5 year anniversary crystal, so I proudly set that up next to my monitors, but who knows when I’ll even see it again? Having that entire beautiful building to myself was very strange – kinda like a tech version of the movie Home Alone. I was walking around drinking sparkling water and having a snack bar, just taking it all in because I know it’s unlikely that something like that will happen again.
Yesterday we spent the entire day outside soaking up all this beautiful weather. Jessica and I spent about 6 hours doing yard work while the kids played. Ava has become quite the skateboarder over the past couple months, and Elise is starting to get into it as well. Enzo still loves riding his BMX racing bike, and it makes me happy watching him because he’s so natural on it. We were all exhausted by the end of the day, but it was nice to sit out on our porch and take in all the fruits of our labor.
Today is Mother’s Day, which means you can count on me making breakfast for Jessica. This year she made a point to ask me not to go big with some fancy crab benedict, so I obliged, but did my best with what I could find around the house. Since the beaches have recently reopened, her request was that we get an early start on the day and spend the morning at the beach in Mukilteo. The kids collected seashells, climbed rocks and logs, and we all walked pretty far along the water. It was exactly what Mom wanted, and once again the weather was on our side.
Obviously we’re hoping for normalcy to return, but in the meantime we’re making the best of it. We’re very much looking forward to getting to spend time with family and friends again, and to getting back to the activities we love. I continue to remain thankful that we’re all healthy, and that our quality of life hasn’t really changed throughout this whole ordeal. Watching the news every night is a sobering reminder of how badly this is affecting so many people, and my heart goes out to them (especially when kids are involved), so when you look at it that way we’re in really good shape.
To all the Mom’s in our lives, we love you and hope to see you soon. I’m glad I got to talk to my Mom and Amy today, as well as exchange messages with Lora, Dana, Aunt Brenda, and Kristy. Family visits will take on a new meaning once they’re able to resume. Happy Mother’s Day to all, and especially to the best Mom our kids could ever hope for.
